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For couples · 18+ · invite only

Dare each other. Play together.

A private game where couples write saucy challenges for other couples, score points, climb ladders and keep the stories.

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No ads. Nothing is ever posted anywhere.

How it works

  1. 1 Make your couple.Create your account with an invite, then send your partner a link. You play as one couple.
  2. 2 Join a league.Start one with couples you know, or join one you're invited to. Each couple writes challenges for the others.
  3. 3 Play and score.Play the other couples' challenges and mark them done to score points. The highest total when the season ends wins.

What's inside

LeaguesSeasons of challenges with couples you know.
LaddersRungs to climb together, from gentle to adventurous.
Toy Chest and Kink ClosetKeep track of what you own and what you'd like to try.
AfterglowThe story after a challenge, shared only if you both say yes.
EventsThemed challenges for a month, with badges to earn.
PollsVote on a question, then see what everyone picked.
The GazetteNews, how-tos and Ask Cumby, the advice column.

Private by design

  • Discreet mode.One switch and the app calls itself "Notes", with a plain icon and no pictures.
  • A lock on the app.A PIN, Face ID or fingerprint. It locks itself after 5 minutes idle.
  • Encrypted photos.Photos and videos are encrypted on the server. Proof can be opened once, then it's deleted.
  • Quiet notifications.They say that something happened, never what, and never who.
  • Delete it all.Deleting your account removes it at once, with what you made. The Privacy policy lists the little that stays.

Either of you can skip any challenge, no reason needed, and a bonus challenge can always be passed. Each couple keeps its own safeword and aftercare note, and anyone can report a concern to the admins.

How we keep play healthy

Request an invite

No invite yet? Leave your email. The admins read every request, and if they say yes, we email you a code that works once.

We use your email only for this request. Privacy policy

Questions

How do I get an invite?

Ask a friend who's a member to send you a link. Or tap Request an invite and leave your email: the admins read every request, and if they say yes, we email you a code.

Who can see what we do?

Only the people you play with. Your partner sees everything your couple does. Couples in your leagues see your names, your profile, your totals and what you choose to share. There are no public profiles, and nothing is ever posted outside the app. The Privacy policy has the details.

Is it free?

Yes, it's free.